Thursday, 15 October 2009

Challenging You


How do you deal with the difficulties situation in your life? Have you realized yourself learning from those episodes? If ‘yes’, congratulation for your state of presence and for your emotional intelligence consciously in practice. It is this last one of the most requested life skill to support us succeed in all aspects of our lives.

It is this state of surrender that allows us to non resist what happens right now because it is the only moment where we are alive. Through this awareness we can learn from every single situation that may arise in the next minute as a continuous process of understanding that instead of fight against what is we can embrace it for our own growth.

The challenges appear for each one of us in several singular ways, and those whom are willing to grow will take advantage of all situations of their lives, even from the apparent most insignificant ones.

While some of us keep ourselves stuck in resistance and just seek for self-understanding when something extremely dramatic happen, some others are more aware of their potentialities and hence seek support to improve their life skills accelerating their process of self-growth.

This is why is so important to be supported in this process of self-understanding, because most of the time we are unaware about our tendency to put ourselves in the role of victim of the situations. And instead of learning from them we misunderstood the opportunities to grow, perpetuating our inability to think differently.

Furthermore, here, the most important thing is how to realize ourselves beyond our cognitive system and how we can overcome its limitations.

It is in this context that Coaching as a contemporary intervention appears to support those whom are willing to grow thought a process of raising self-awareness. Beyond that, well supported we can clarify and understanding our strengths, generating new resources to attend the realistic goals that we will be updating along the way.


We just need to be able to accept this possibility as real as we are, as real as life is, recognizing that all the resources necessary to concretize whatever we want inhabit within us, we must just be willing to explore them.

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